How to Squirt (Alone or with a Partner)
Can Everyone Squirt?
But most sex educators and researchers suspect that number is much higher. “It is my belief that everyone with a vulva can squirt if they have a coordinated pelvic floor and a good relationship with their vulva,” says Jean.
Melancon agrees that, in theory, the majority of vulva-owners should be able to learn how to squirt. But it’s hard to know for sure, she says. For instance, in theory, everyone with nipples could enjoy nipple stimulation, but that’s not necessarily the case, she explains. The same goes for butt stuff. (Related: Does Anal Sex Feel Good or Hurt?)
Translation: It’s unknown exactly how many vulva-owners can/will/could squirt. But if you’re interested, it’s totally worth exploring how to squirt or how to make your partner squirt.
“Like orgasms, the way to achieve squirting will vary person-to-person, day-to-day,” says Jean. But usually, these steps can help you learn how to squirt – or help you make your partner squirt.
1. Prep your space. Some vulva-owners can squirt a whole lot of fluid! And it’s probably not going to happen unless you’re totally fine getting your surroundings all wet – nothing kills the mood like worrying you’ll ruin your new comforter. Melancon recommends prepping your space with a towel or Liberator Moisture-Proof Blanket. “If you’re into medical play, you might also try putting down incontinence pads or puppy pads, both of which are super absorbent,” she adds. Read more
